The Alpha Male

Why Women Are Attracted To Alpha Males And How To Become One

Yes, it would totally rock if all a guy had to do to become a top dog Alpha Male was to pop a little pill one night and presto, bammo the next morning he’d wake up full of the confidence and knowledge to be not only be king of his world, but totally desirable to the hot babe he’s been pining over for months.

Sorry friends, there is no pill, but that doesn’t mean you’re forsaken. Nope. You have a very powerful tool right now at your command and it’s completely free to use. Your brain. That’s right. If you can wrap your mind around the idea that changing the way you think about yourself will change your world you absolutely can go from being a poor slob to an Alpha Male.


Alpha Male Mind Over Matter

Mind is the causal level. As I stated above, your brain is the right tool to use to become an Alpha Male. By this I mean that in order to make physical changes in your life you first have to make mental changes in how you think about yourself, the world you live in, and what you’d like to make happen. You cannot continue to keep thinking about yourself the way you are now if you want to be an Alpha Male – insanity is doing things the way you’ve always done them and thinking things are going to change for the better. And that’s the fastest way to stay exactly where you are now.

So how do you change your thinking? Carefully and deliberately. It has to be a slow, constant, conscious process in order to stick and become your new habit. This is the sort of race the tortoise wins over the hare. It will do you absolutely no good to decide you’re going to change your mental attitude about yourself and your life at the end of this article, and then go right back to your old way of doing things, but believing you’ve done your homework. Nope, you’ve got to constantly reaffirm to yourself your new way of thinking. You’ve got to become your own cheerleader and drill sergeant as you meticulously change your negative, down trodden way of seeing yourself and your world into a powerful, positive mentality.

You’ve got to start accepting that you’re an Alpha Male work in progress, and you’ve got to take on this game with all the seriousness you’d put into mastering a sport like golf, or snowboarding.

And you can’t get a powerful, positive mentality if you waste your brain on constant mental junk food. If you spend most of your free time expecting to be entertained you can forget increasing your ability to attract babes. Your brain needs a new kind of positive fuel. You need to invest in yourself. You need to find the right books to give you the mental ammunition to catapult you to the next level to learn and master the seductive process.

But of course you’ve got to do more than merely change your way of thinking. You have to put your new thoughts into action in order to really make a difference.


To Get Ahead You Have to Take Risks

This is as true in business as it is with women. If we’ve told you once here at SeductionInsider.com you can’t play the “safe friend” card with totally desirable popular women and end up in her bed we’ve told you a thousand times. Oh yes you can fool yourself into thinking it’s possible, but you’ll probably end up with gray hair before you end up naked with Ms. Fabulousness.

One of the biggest secrets to dating hot women is having the guts to ask them out in the first place. That’s right. You’ve got to be a man of action, because all of the plotting and planning and dreaming in the world is going to get you no where if you never have the courage to actually ask her out.


You’ve got to Take Rejection Like a Man

Successful dating is a numbers game, yet so many men (and women) totally screw up their chance for a hot love life by becoming obsessed over the one person who says “no thanks.” In sales there’s a saying “ten will get you two.” What this means is that ten cold calls will get you two interested prospects, ten sales meetings will get you two new clients, and so on. But you’ve got to pick up the phone and knock on doors and go on ten meetings and go through eight “no’s” in order to get the two clients.

It’s the same with dating.

One of the most powerful decisions you can make in life towards becoming an Alpha Male (and a happy person) is to teach yourself to let go and move on when a woman isn’t interested. There are many beautiful fish in the sea my dear men – and here’s the corker – the woman who said “no thanks” often decides she’s made a mistake and misjudged you when you let go, move on, and she hears how fabulous you are from others…

And that feeds right into…


Become a Man of Action

Nothing’s more boring to women, especially really hot, on the go, desirable women, than a man who’s a complete doormat, waiting for the woman to take the lead in their dates together, deciding what to do.

Now, with this being said, I do have to let you in on a secret of master daters – they know what women like to do because they’re observant and they remember to ask. So no taking her to monster truck rallies unless she’s specifically shown interest in said event, do your research buddy, and then take the time to plan fantastic dates.


And Finally, Do What You Say You’re Going to Do – But Nothing More

The second way to be a doormat is to be available to women all the time. Remember you have your own interesting life to lead (even if you’re still trying to figure that part out). Alpha Males don’t stand up women, they don’t make plans and break them (except for emergencies) but neither do they put themselves at the beck and call of a woman they barely know, nor do they pester her to death to spend time with them several times a week. They know there’s power in creating a great time, but being a bit mysterious and rare – especially in the beginning.