By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
If you are patiently waiting for the mail man to show up with your sealed golden invitation to a "Bachelorette Party" you might as well be voting for "The Green Party" during the next presidential election.
There are only a handful of guys that "get invited" to a Bachelorette Party before the drinking begins while the rest are left to gawk. There is an opportunity to jump into this set of girls but you have to catch them early.
The break down goes like this; a girl is getting married soon, her girlfriends throw a Bachelorette Party, they usually rent a limo, play stupid games trying to be good and get royally drunk. That is it, plain and simple.
That little formula has an Achilles Heal to it that even the girls are aware of. They play games and act silly like it is girls night out but secretly half are happy for her and will get drunk based on that premise.
The other half of the girls wishes it was them getting married and get drunk based on that premise and these ladies, these ladies are vulnerable and your target. Watch out for the first of the two girls mentioned (happy girls) because they are "guards" and "cock blockers" and "ball busters". Their mission is to not let you in because they know one of the girls will give in.
Tell Me How Jackson
Be cool fool! You have to learn the ropes. Women generally like to get married when the weather is warm, so most bachelorette Parties are going to be held in late spring and throughout the summer. During this wedding season many girls will hold their Bachelorette Party in Las Vegas. "What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas."
This is your practice arena because you might encounter two or three bachelorette Parties in one night (Only Seduction Insider brings you this kind of candid "hands on" information). So now you are in Vegas during wedding season, keep your eyes peeled for when a Bachelorette Party rolls in. There will always be a loud gorgeous girl in the group - keep away from her. She is what I call the "magnet", she works just like a magnet, one side attracts and other side deflects - during a Bachelorette Party she is no friend to the penis.
In one paragraph you have learned when and where to find them and the first thing to avoid. Don`t break that rule about the "magnet" no matter what, she will come in handy if you are doing well later.
When you spot the group, DON`T BUM RUSH them. That means don`t be the first idiot to go up and strike out, anyone can do that, you have homework to do. When they finally find a spot to sit down, watch them, the girl that is looking around the bar and not paying attention to her friends is your target.
There might be a couple of them, but there will always be at least one with the wandering eye. If she has no ring on herself send her a drink right away.
ALERT: When this is happening many men are trying to come up with something fast, you must be faster, do not wait for the waitress, pull out some cash, walk over to "their" waitress and with a nice tip and ask her politely to give the wandering eye a drink in your behalf.
Smooth Move, Pimp
Go back to your seat and wait. The key here is not inviting yourself but getting invited. Most women (hopefully) will come over and thank you for the drink when they know who it is from. ALERT: If she never comes over or gives you any rhythm (reciprocates) then no more drinks for her, but if you are really feeling daring then send one to the girl next to her.
Best case scenario is that she does come over to thank you, be ready! Have a business card or piece of paper with your phone number written on it and make sure it is a phone number (cell) that she can reach you at that night. This is the number one way to "get in".
If she thinks you are a cool guy and you are not hanging with needle dick dorks who will blow it for you she will ask you that minute to come over and meet her friends.
Don`t overstay your welcome! If she invites you over to meet the friends, go over, but the first second it seems uncomfortable or you feel like the 9 wheel on a bus, then tell her, "I want you to have fun with your friends, let`s dance later".
Even if you are the worst dancer, you might not have to dance. The Bachelorette Party team will always be bigger and can vote you in or vote you out. You have to penetrate the team by seducing one of them. Remember not all these girls are getting married, only one, so treat it like a singles party; be smooth, don`t crash and burn in front of everyone, plant seeds.
Live Bait
Let`s recap; you know when and where the parties are, you know which girl(s) to avoid right off the bat, you know how to catch the wandering eye, sending the drink is casting the line and retreating to your seat is the bait.
If you two are hitting it off, she will return before she leaves to say goodnight or best case scenario to invite you over. Either way, tell her to use that phone number you gave her, suggest to her to call you when she gets back to the hotel (if you are in Las Vegas you two can have a drink no matter how late) and away from her party.
If she calls there is about a 98% chance that you are going to hook up. The best part is, she will want to split as soon as the sex is over because she has to "save face" with whichever girl she is sharing a room with.
This system is not foolproof but at the onset of most Bachlorette Parties there is such a heavy female bonding session going on that no man is "invited" to the party. They always start with the premise of "it`s just us girls", but as they get drunk and get a ton of attention from men the pack starts to thin.
Baiting the weak one, the one who is looking to be caught is the best way in. Now, for the veterans reading this, you know as well as I do that being at a Bachelorette Party is not nearly as fun for a guy as stealing a Bachelorette.
