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Seduction Insider,
I am in deep shit on the subject of casual sex... and i need your help. I will
keep it brief. at the fitness gym I go to works a
young lady who to me is attractive. she is 18 yrs of
age. she told her friend that I was hot and when she
was not there her [friend] told me what she felt. anyhow we
went out...
...and I was
hesitant to make moves on her because of the age
difference. i am 22 and she just turn 18 NO actually
she is 17 1/2. anyhow at my place I was hesitant about
making or having sex with her and she seemed VERY
frustated because I took her to a place she has never
been before with out sex. during the time i was
performing foreplay to her I was rock hard and i could
not wait any longer and we had brief sex. i did not
represent the way i really wanted to. now I feel that
her expectation was not met. I also got a job working
where she works. do you think that this girl I worth
persuing? does working where she works make things
complicated for casual sex?
Hello "In Deep Shit",
Whenever you`re dating a girl you work with, you have to be prepared for
things to get complicated. Especially younger girls, who often thrive on
gossip and the next step, rumors and drama.
If you`re prepared for this gossip (meaning, it`s not going to hurt your
position in the company), then you can date this girl.
After the brief episode at your house, it sounds like things are now a
little bit unsure (confused) between the two of you... Whenever things are
unsure between you and a woman, this is the best time to be bold... because
unsure people are subconsciously looking for a leader to tell them what to
do. If I were you, I`d consider calling this girl right away (don`t wait
any longer), and acting as if everything is still completely normal between
the two of you... Then to finalize it, end the call with...
"Look, about the other night, I think you`re a really attractive person, the
kind of person who`s worth spending more time with. I wasn`t sure about the
casual sex part, I guess that just kind of happened.... How do you feel about it?"
Once you`ve heard her thoughts, you may have a better idea of how this is
going.
You mentioned being in "deep shit", and this says that you feel a little out of control of the situation... I recommend taking a brief time to eliminate all of your worries, and put yourself back in complete control. Your
worries fuel your imagination, and your imagination makes you think of
things that aren`t really happening. This is called paranoia, and as the old saying goes, "paranoia will destroy ya`."
Sincerely
Seduction Insider
