What Do Models Look For In Men?

Model Dana Hamm Reveals What It Is That She Looks For In Men, And What Men Can Do To Spark That Initial Interest

Melissa: So the first thing our male readers are going to want to know is how a regular ordinary guy can attract a beautiful, exotic fitness model like you? What catches your attention about a man and makes you want to give him a chance?

Dana: I know this sounds cliché, but for me so much rides on personality and overall demeanor. Women are tired to the “macho” types and the guys who think it’s cool to act careless and treat women with little respect. Men need to find that middle ground that says I’m strong and tough, but I’m also intelligent and compassionate. Confidence is another key factor in attraction. I’m attracted to someone who is self-assured, but not egotistical. Appearance is very important to some women. I think it’s relative and in the eye of the beholder. What some people think is “good-looking” others don’t and visa versa.

Melissa: You're known as the "Queen of Fitness" models and have been featured in more magazine pictorials than any other model in your genre, obviously you've got a beautiful face and a fabulous body, but what personality traits have helped your stellar rise to the top of the fitness model world?

Dana: I always treat everyone with respect, whether it’s a photographer, editor, make-up artist, or fan. Some models develop this “diva” attitude that suggests everyone owes them something. They are arrogant and catty. It’s a stupid move, because 99.9% of models can be replaced very easily. I treat people as if they’re family and I always give them the benefit of the doubt (until proven otherwise) and I think that has helped my career progress.

Melissa: You've created super hot photos and even videos - however - you've decided not to pose completely nude (though you seriously push the envelope) when many other models in your industry do. Do you think you'll ever change your mind...say if Playboy came calling?

Dana: Playboy has contacted me on several different occasions. I was very flattered, because Playboy is such an iconic magazine. However, I had higher hopes for my career in the arena of acting. I didn’t want to sell out for 15 minutes of fame in Playboy then be blackballed or typecast when I attempted other more serious career endeavors.

Melissa: What type of shoots do you enjoy the most? And conversely, what's the most challenging thing for you about being a model and constantly in front of the camera?

Dana: I enjoy indoor lingerie shoots the best, because they’re most comfortable. Outside shoots result in beautiful images, but it’s tough fighting elements like heat, cold, wind, etc… People don’t understand what models often go thru to get that perfect shot. It looks fun, but behind the scenes there’s a lot of work involved. There are many challenging aspects to maintaining a career as a model. Modeling once or twice is a piece of cake, but staying in the game is a different story. It’s just like any other business it takes discipline and hard work. Your appearance is everything in modeling, so you always have to be in great shape with good skin and healthy hair.

Melissa: At this point in your career how much creative input do you put into your various photos shoots? Do you have a say in the clothes, the styling, or the location? And do you decide on the type of merchandise for your fans?

Dana: Yes, I have a lot of creative control. I decide on my wardrobe, hair, and make-up. I also determine and approve all images for products and merchandise. I help decide on locations, but I usually leave that up to the photographer and crew.

Melissa: What do you think your fans would find was the most surprising aspect of your life as a model?

Dana: I’m just a regular girl at heart. Sometimes I’m goofy…I enjoy making people laugh. I also like to spend time outdoors and I don’t mind getting dirty. I’m not all about shopping and looking pretty.

Melissa: Finally, what sort of evening would a man have to put together for a date to completely sweep you off your feet?

Dana: It’s not always about what a guy can do to impress you; it’s more about the guy’s character. If he is a nice, genuine person then I’m open to the possibilities. I appreciate it when a guy goes all out for a date, but at the same time it’s not necessarily a deal maker.