By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
If you look up aphrodisiac in the dictionary you can derive flirting as its foundation. Flirting is not only an aphrodisiac but the precursor as well.
In show business they say, "timing is everything", and when you flirt with a member of the opposite sex the show you put on must be a good one. There are many forms of flirtation and some are an invitation, so when you flirt make sure that person knows that the invitation will require confirmation. In other words, flirt like you mean it.
Flirting is more about showing you have something to offer than something to prove. Most of us like to spoil ourselves either with food or clothing, toys and even cars. It is only a natural ascension to want to spoil yourself with the spoils of the opposite sex. Attractive people attract all types, that`s the good news! Because they attract all types you have a better chance of being their "type" then you might think. No matter what you look like, you are somebody`s type. Never rule out flirting with someone you think is "out of your league", because there are no leagues and that is ridiculous.
Cops & Robbers
There are fundamental elements of flirting that are shared by all age groups and they all start with confidence. Imagine you are carrying a holstered .44 Magnum sidearm as your confidence. Like your confidence it should be heavy and visible. There is nothing weak or submissive about your sidearm therefore there is nothing weak about your demeanor.
There are only two genders out there, therefore someone is always watching us; we are all watching each other. When you walk into a room carry yourself as both cop and criminal. When a cop walks in the room, they know everyone is looking at them for one reason or another and they cordially acknowledge this welcome with unmoving supremacy, never flinching at detractors or admirers knowing full well they have the power to subdue them. The criminal walks into the room like a chameleon that is quickly able to morph into whatever the situation requires, sometimes turning presence into purpose.
The next few bullets you dispense from your sidearm will have to be "quick on the draw" to make your point and hit the mark. After you have walked into the room, grocery store, gas station, bank, club or wherever else you are, notice the people you wouldl ike to meet then make eye contact. I personally look at the gal`s ring finger first to see if she is married before I start making bedroom eyes at her. If she is a viable target (single and she caught you looking), then the next time she looks at you, make eye contact and smile. If you are really confident, use the "tilted grin". Nothing says flirty and cocky like the "tilted grin". Smile, and tilt your head slightly left or right. Do it right now while you are reading this. Better yet, do this while standing in front of a mirror.
The concept of the tilted grin is simple - you look mischievous. We all know what mischievous looks like. A loooong stare with a dirty smile on our face. For the guys, this is clearly the bad boy approach and for the ladies this is a look that says she is no angel.
Public Places
The grocery store has been and always will be one of the best pick up spots for singles. When I go shopping for groceries (almost daily, and that`s on purpose) I have never seen so many single people staring at each other with no alcohol in their systems.
The way you flirt at the grocery store is bring a fake list to the store, after you have a few things in your cart and you happen to see a hot person near the tortillas you can walk over stand next to them and act like you are scratching them off your list.
It now looks like you eat the same thing and this is your big opportunity to say, "What are you making?"
The fruits and vegetable section is where I see all the action go down. Everyone just standing there squeezing fruits and staring at each other reminds of that word aphrodisiac again. The only "no-no" I have for the grocery store is this; if you want a person`s phone number make sure you are not in front of them in the check out line. This goes for the dry cleaners, coffee shop, retail stores etc. If you are going to be doing the asking for the phone number it is better to try to catch up to them than stand around waiting for them uncomfortably while their purchases are being tabulated.
They might get uncomfortable seeing you stand there like some 7-11 stalker. Best bet is to chat with them while behind them in line. If the person keeps talking or looking back at you, they are interested. They will show this again by taking their precious time getting to back to there car, giving you an opportunity to close the deal.
Location, Location, Location
Locations where you will meet women is less relevant to what is most important when you do; facial expressions. Your facial expressions are something you take to every location and opportunity when flirting.
What really gets people hot is eye contact and smiling at each other. Compliment her and say you "had to come over and talk to her". When you are talking close to them, don`t talk loud, talk soft as if your tone alone suggests seduction.
Without saying a word your eyes should say "sex", but your demeanor is safe, warm and welcoming. Make your play and move away. Leave that person thinking about how much chemistry you created in a matter of seconds and they will crave it again.
Flirting is "enticing". It is teasing and should always be fun. Less is more when it comes to flirting, so create your presence, make your point, make your move and make them crave.
