By Melissa Balmer
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Hi Melissa,
The article: How to Talk to Women was very insightful. Thanks. However, I do have a question:
I`ve always been able to turn a certain type woman on. And it`s getting to be a bit boring. Most of the women I`ve met lately seem to be only interested in someone if they have a lot of money, and that leave me to decide whether or not it`s for love or money. It doesn`t seem to matter if you are good looking or anything like that, the conversation always leads to how much money I make. Now, don`t get me wrong, I do make pretty good money (upper middle class) and I don`t mind spending money to have a good time with a woman, but I don`t want to attract women like that. It`s to simple and easy to do. I want to attract a woman`s emotions. So my question is: How do I avoid the money conversations and turn them into emotional experiences that really touch a woman`s heart?
Thanks
Q.R.
Melissa answers:
Thanks for your question. I`m very glad you liked "How to Talk to Women: The Art Of Aural Sex" it`s an article I`m particularly proud of.
The question you write about seems to be an issue for many men. I`ve decided I`m going to write a full article on it: Is She Only After Your Money.
Until then I will say two things:
A) Something about you may cause the women to think money is extremely important to you. You may wear, own or talk about things that are quite well known for their expense. The women may be mirroring you and talking about what they THINK you`re interested in.
B) You may be drawn to women who are obsessed with money. You may be drawn to women who only dine in certain restaurants, go to certain clubs and dress a particular way--you may be drawn to princesses. Start looking at faces and body types rather than nice shoes, well kept hair, expensive watches etc. and you`ll see some beautiful, fun, kind women in the line at the grocery store, at a local pub listening to live music, taking an art class...who aren`t as well off as you perhaps, but who have more on their mind than money.
I hope this helps.
All the best,
Melissa
