How to Keep Her From Cheating

The subject of women cheating is so popular these days that it’s making it on the cover of well-known national magazines like “Newsweek”, but the truth is that women have been cheating just as long as men have. After all, heterosexual men haven’t been cheating with other men have they? Still women cheating has become more prevalent in our modern age as many women no longer have to rely on men for their livelihood’s. Many women are now free to go out, and well, act just like men.

You can get pissed off, or accept the irony and the wisdom that women really are sexual creatures just the same as men. Tuck this knowledge into you brain and never forget it – if unhappy and unsatisfied in a monogamous romantic relationship for long enough there’s a good chance that many women will look for greener pastures to roll around with someone new in.

But what if this is your girlfriend/wife we’re talking about here? How do you keep her from wandering? You plan ahead so you don’t get caught with some other smuck’s pants down in the vicinity of your girl:


You Play Fair

Come on, it’s just common sense here guys. If you don’t think you need to be faithful why should she? If you go about dating and love as if you get your own set of rules about faithfulness you just might get those rules rammed down your throat – and no, they won’t taste good.


Know Her History

Have one of her parent’s had an affair? Has she cheated before? While neither is an absolute indicator of behavior it is a behavior she’s all too familiar with and may revert to if things get rocky or she gets bored.


Keep Communicating & Connected

Chances are you need sex to feel intimate and she needs intimacy to both to feel like sex and just to hang. In the beginning you probably worked your ass off to keep the communication going between the two of you, but as time goes on and men feel more comfortable, they get lazy and stop making an effort. Don’t – you’ll be sorry. If you can’t keep pace with the amount of talking she’d like from you work out a deal. Relationships are about understanding each other’s needs and making doable compromises so both sides get their needs met. And how can it be that the more connected to you she feels the more she wants to shag?


Spend Enough Time Together

Stop and think man, do you really need to work so hard just to have all those toys? Being a workaholic might get you ahead at the office, but it may eventually lead you to living a parallel but separate life from your gal, and that can lead to you waking up and finding yourself totally alone.

Over schedule your life, leave your woman alone long enough, and she’ll find other ways to amuse herself, and no, I don’t mean watching endless reruns of “Sex In The City” except as inspiration. If she works she’ll start accepting the compliments of that hot young stud at work, which leads to lunch, which leads to…yeah, you got the picture. And you’re not safe if she’s stays at home either. Leave her alone and bored with only the company of small children she has to constantly cater to and sooner or later she’ll turn on the computer and start exploring the Internet. Need I say more? No.


Let Her Know You Adore Her – All of Her

No, grinding against her with a hard-on, as “hello” while she makes you dinner isn’t foreplay – it’s stupidity. Giving her affection and attention only when you’re in the mood to get your groove on is quickly going to lead to her having a headache. You want a woman to be faithful to you? Let her know she rocks your world mentally, emotionally and yes, physically. Compliment her on her smarts and her character just as much as you compliment her fine ass.

Women love to ponder a man’s affection and sexual interest so keep her imagination well fed or someone else is going to step in and fill the bill. When you read the anecdotes about why women stray over and over again you read about how she “felt ignored”, how the new man “tells her how soft her skin is, how pretty she is, how her smile lights up a room”. Yeah it’s easy to forget, but keep in mind how easy it is for another man to remember.

Now let’s focus on sex. I’ve said it before; I’ll say it again – no matter how hot your woman is she probably doesn’t think she’s half as hot as you find her. You’ve got to keep finding new, sweet, sexy ways to let her know how much she turns you on – and not right when you want to get it on. Surprise her with affection. Give her compliments at unexpected times – like on the way to a family dinner, or going to the wedding of a friend, or when you’re walking out the door on the way to work.


Keep It Fresh

Recognize that if you’re finding life with her a little boring she’s finding it likewise with you, maybe even more so. Men, my dear fellows, can become very predictable creatures of habit far more easily than we like to admit. Chances are she’s not as fond of the couch and delivery pizza as you are, and your favorite bedroom moves are getting so old they’re growing mold. Take her out on the town, travel and discover new places together, read up and learn all you can about creating great sex together. Same old, same old, breeds boredom for anyone, why should it be different for your woman?