How To Make Her Fall In Love

I wish it were that easy and simply put, it is. Women by nature are nurturers so it is inherent for them to recognize when they are being nurtured. "Being you" is what usually gets a women`s attention initially anyway, don`t forget that. The things we like about are partners can often be traced to incidents or conversations when we first met them. So if you`re in a decent relationship, you`re already half way to getting her to fall in love with you.


No Agenda Agenda

Knowing what you really want out of the relationship is not only "key" to your success but must be "evident" to her. She will be more apt to give you her heart if she thinks you might be giving her a ring. Your agenda must be clear and with no games or "hidden agenda". She will see you`re working toward a goal, and that makes you a bigger commodity. You must be a man with a plan.

That nurturing starts the moment you invite her to functions with co-workers and relatives. When you introduce your partner to people that are close or important to you but strangers to her, she feels "included" and "recognized. Also, jewelry purchases tell her you`re serious. If you spend your hard earned money on something you picked out for her because of admiration, she definitely will not you go without a fight.

If you really love this girl, then it should not be a stretch to ask how her day went or when she tells you a story, ask her how it made her feel. You must be in touch with her need to express her thoughts and emotions even if you`re bored to tears. Some women are so dramatic they "cry wolf" at the smallest problem. You better have some stamina for those gals and a whole lot of tissues. Just make an effort to ask her a minimum of 2 or 3 "personal" questions every single day.


TKO

When it comes to any relationship the foundation will most certainly be communication.

You are about to get the best advice from a man regarding communication with a women, are you ready? "Not everything she says requires a rebuttal from you!" You read that right. As much as you would like to tell her off in the heat of the moment, remember you`re going to spend the rest of your life with this person, so pick your battles well. Many arguments will require you to take the "TKO" or technical knock out. This is when you are intelligent enough to realize that she is entitled to her emotions and the wrath will only last as long as you keep talking. Bite your lip, tell her she is right (not that you are wrong, she is just right, get it), give her a minute for "aftershocks" and take the TKO.

This shows you`re a giver and unselfish and fair when it comes to her needs in a disagreement. Remember, to keep a balance and pick your battles well, because losing your identity in her completely will allow her to walk all over you and she wont respect that either. Just remember, shutting your mouth will get you in the least amount of trouble. Especially if your wife is a gabby bitch like my ex, she also had bad breath but that is another story for another day.


Be Real

Do what you say and say what you mean. Don`t play games with schedules or phone calls or special occasions. Be a solid boyfriend and truly treat as well if not better than she treats you, it comes back with some women ten fold. You don`t have to spend a ton of money on her or cater to her every whim, merely pay attention to what is important to her and make it important to you. If you don`t want a full committed relationship that will lead to marriage and her loving you, then stop reading right now and read the article about group sex on this same site. Otherwise, even if you`re a "bad boy", be her good boy.


Finding the Pearl

Communication is the most important fundamental here and especially when it comes to sex. If this girl is the "one", make sure she knows more than "one" position in the bed. You must keep the sexual energy charged in the relationship, since men are more inherently lazy on this subject; you will have to work twice as hard to get her to fall in love by love making. So, getting down to basics, I say go "pearl hunting" as often as possible.

Imagine that her clitoris is the pearl and each time you find it, polish it and treat it as a valuable gem. I can not be clearer than this. Women love oral and if you can give her oral often, you will get better and she will not want to live without it. In addition, every time you perform oral on her without pleasuring yourself at all, you look like the "king" and you will be. I took a date to the Getty Museum in Los Angeles one afternoon. We had only been on two other dates (no sex) prior to this one. I had a great parking space in the structure and no walk by traffic was around.

I successfully convinced her to let me go down on her, I could see she was nervous and excited but she gave in. I brought her to climax in the back of my SUV, never taking my pants off. We had a great day at the museum and she glowed with affection for hours. When we returned to the car, I suggested we go out for dinner. She told me, "All I have thought about since we left this car was screwing your brains out, take me home." I have made my case and point.

So if you`re in a relationship and it is going well, you are probably doing some of these things anyway. When someone falls in love with you, you have a responsibility to them, especially if you provoked it on purpose. If you`re trying to just bag a girl, these will probably work as well, but you will get found out in the agenda portion of the plan. So to get her to say "I love you" remember your list. Be yourself, have a plan, pick your battles wisely, communicate, show concern and go pearl hunting like Jacques Cousteau for the rest of your life.