By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
If you`re good at picking up women, then you know the list of professional trophies has an order. Females in certain professions get hit on more than others and become bored with the predictability of men`s behavior. If you are handsome it can be a curse as well with these women who think you`re a prowler anyway. Don`t fret, there is no curse on anyone, and a course of action for everyone.
If you can pick up the waitress at the restaurant during the meal you have "Skill". If you can pick up the cocktail waitress at a bar you have "Game". If you can pick up a stripper (without paying) you get bragging rights and you are the "Man".
"Skill" is not a novice but someone who shoots fish in a barrel. Easy prey, usually they are women in the service industry or sales that have crossed their path. These women initially have a casual professional relationship that is easy to morph. Let`s face it, they are already "serving" you, it is in their nature to be accommodating. Hair dressers are also great targets for the "Skill" set. They are touching and grooming you for money.
"Game" is definitely a much higher level than "Skill". The only thing keeping "game" from the top rung is strippers. We will go there next. "Game" can punish the "Skill" set without them even knowing it. "Game" guys are smart, they go after two classes. The first is, the girls that check them out. "Game" guys can take a girl that is flirting with them all the way to sex the same day. They know how to play on that sexual energy; slowing or speeding up the flow by the way she acts. The second tasty class they go after is, "Taken" or unavailable women. When a "Cougar" or married woman or young prissy co-ed throws it out, he will be the one to catch it and run with it. "Game" guys have very little fear or insecurity and emulate confidence.
That last sentence is the key to dating and successful sexual relationships
Well, this is the part you have been waiting for, "how to pick up strippers". This will be much simpler and cheaper than you think. First, let`s get something out of the way. If you deal drugs, any drugs, then you`re probably already getting some stripper action, because many of them self medicate and are easy targets for the dope man. That said, there is an actual system, but it requires patience and methodology. Remember the last sentence about "Game", this is important because many strippers are very insecure and live on attention as much as money. So here is the order for playing the stripper game.
Become a Regular
Go to the same one or two strip clubs that are closest to your house. Places close by are more familiar to her if she is considering meeting you. Go in the same one or two nights each week. Pick nights that are slow so there are fewer men fighting for attention and this makes you stand out.
Where to Sit
Don`t sit at the stage! Sit as close to the bar or at the bar as possible. Sitting farther from the stage makes the girls have to come over to you. If you sit at the bar, don`t face the stage, sit cockeyed facing a little of both stage and bar. All of this is for the girls to see you and wonder why you`re not sitting with your tongue hanging out like everyone else.
Tipping
No tipping the dancers, especially the one you like. The moment they see you as a source of income, you will never hit that without paying for it. You tip only the bartender and tip her well! Like the rest of the planet, the bartender can be your best ally for meeting others at the bar. Someone will eventually ask about you and the word "cheap" is one of the last words they want to hear come out of the bartender`s mouth.
2`s Company
Three is a crowd, unless number three is a girl too. Strippers are naked for hours with other women, and many of them are bi-sexual or "experimental". They appreciate another woman`s beauty, but will still compete for it. If you go to the club, either go alone or with another girl, preferably a cute one. Don`t bring a guy to the club, he becomes competition and you will both lose. When a stripper sees you with a woman, she assumes you and the other woman are a little more liberated than most and her cumfort level goes up.
Act 1
If you can not bring a female, don`t worry it is all about you anyway. Let`s catch up: You`re a regular, sitting alone, sitting near the bar, tipping well to the bartender and not taking any lap dances. Trust me, you have their attention.
SMILE as much as possible, look like and have a good time, including when you decline a dance. When they approach for a dance, smile bigger and say, "Maybe later, I`m good right now". Always say maybe later. It will drive them crazy when you come in; wondering if tonight is the night.
NEVER take your calls in the club, take them to the restroom or outside. Never let them hear your personal or professional business. You want to go as long as you can with them knowing as little as possible but always wondering. If you finally have to say anything about profession then reply, "I do what you do, I smile and make people happy and they give me money, I just do it during the day". This mode is so important to them chasing you.
ALWAYS be a gentleman and always be courteous no matter what. If you`re drunk and horny and you think she flirted, GO HOME. You will know these girls don`t mess around; if she wants you she won`t tease she will tell. So you have to be consistent and polite. This is the icing on the cake for your subtle, aloof and charming behavior. Be a regular, don`t act like one.
In summary, the best way to pick up a stripper is to look like a regular fun guy who does not care if he picks up anyone. We all gravitate to what we can not have, like you did to the strip club. The stripper is more inclined to gravitate toward you if you seem like a nice harmless local guy who is a bit mysterious. These girls are never nurtured; this is what you`re doing. Lastly, the only thing left is to throw a party. If you have not scored using the methodology but made friends, then invite everyone to your house for a party.
They know how to do that with there eyes closed.