How To Start Great Conversations With Women -

If You Can Make A Woman Laugh, You Can Get In Her Pants

Whether females know it or not they are like art work - breathtaking artwork. Some of the most beautiful women in the world or even in your neighborhood don't fully realize how captivated and paralytic men become in their presence.

Maybe it is infatuation or even lust or no less than pure appreciation of that beauty that puts us in a state of mind that vexes us and confounds us. What do I say to this person? How could I possibly start a conversation with her?


Make A Smart Woman Feel Beautiful And Make A Beautiful Woman Feel Smart

Never forget that quote because you will uncover opportunities even before you start conversations to determine which way to go based on that method. But you want hard, usable quotes and actions don't you? That is why we are here. So our first example of turning this into an opportunity will be based on the latter half of the quote. "….make a beautiful woman feel smart".

By nature most females who are prissy, high maintenance or expensive looking don't have a great deal of "self-esteem", that is why they adorn themselves with so much fluff. They spend lots of money and many hours at salons getting waxed and groomed. Here is the IRONY - when someone pays them a compliment about their looks (even when they are gorgeous) it gets kicked to the curb because of two reasons.

First, they don't actually believe it. Second, they have heard that compliment so many times that it is not original and in fact - boring.

Telling a beautiful woman she is beautiful is about as original as calling sandpaper "rough". Pay attention to everything that is making her pretty, is it her hair or her outfit? Do her breasts lightly jostle in her silk blouse? Do the sexy pumps she is wearing make her look "edible"?

If you have checked her out thoroughly you will ultimately find that compliment makes her feel intelligent. You see, when you compliment a woman's "TASTE" you are in fact complimenting her intelligence. "Those are very nice shoes", "Your nails look great", "I really like your necklace".

Those are just a few examples of what you should say; I would venture to guess that no man has complimented her jewelry selection in a long time. The basic facts here are that any subject that compliments a woman correctly will result in her talking about herself - if that happens, you're in.


If You Can Make A Woman Laugh, You Can Get In Her Pants

"Make a smart woman feel beautiful…" The first part of this theory is applicable to all women because when any woman is LAUGHING she feels beautiful. So when you find opportunities in public places like the grocery store, pet store, or at a local coffee shop and you are standing next to a female that you want to talk to, say something flip.

I don't mean you should scare her with your jokes about the sci-fi channel. Say something sarcastic, sardonic, or even mocking. Example: I was at the large grocery store near my house in line with my goods and this gorgeous black female came up in line behind me. We stood in the line for a moment as I scanned everything in her cart - and then I saw my in. She had a bag of "brown sugar".

I looked at her (never saying hi) and pointed at the bag and said, "What do you need that for"? She was about to tell me why she was buying it and caught herself "getting the joke". She laughed and started a conversation with me. About a week later we had sex for a couple of hours on a Tuesday afternoon, all because I took a chance at being funny and saying something original.

Never once did I tell her she was beautiful or dote over her looks, which is clearly what everyone before me had done. We were just playful in conversation. Plus, I being white challenged her a bit out of her own box I am sure. Most men would have complimented her looks, waited outside for her number and struck out. Be original and then be patient.

Example: You are out with friends and the group is drinking and discussing various issues. There is a girl in the group that dominates the conversation with smarts and verbiage. She could crush you with her knowledge of minutia but you want to flirt with her and get her off her high horse a little.

For instance, she is discussing politics and says something very impressive commanding the group's attention - you will retort, "Do you know how sexy your mouth looks when you are talking about politics"? Does that sound silly? HINT: If you compliment a female's looks in front of other people she will be humbled in a heartbeat.

In that moment she knows she is being seen as sexy and not intelligent, and she digs it because she is intelligent and yet it took her by surprise and made her feel girly.

Lastly, the number on conversation starter worldwide is - "HI! How are you?" All good conversations start with cordiality. You may say hi to the same person everyday at work without ever having a conversation. Those "hellos" are your pass to start one. A good conversation starter that you can count on is just being "cordial".

Saying hello, giving a compliment making a joke are the three best conversation starters you can have.

Take them everywhere.