By Grant Day
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If you`re a red blooded male, and you’ve been studying all the tips we’ve got here on SeductionInsider, you’re ready to take on new sexual challenges and move yourself up in the dating pool.
It was inevitable. The more you`ve studied seduction, the better you`ve gotten at attracting women, and now instead of dating 5`s and 6`s, you`re dating 8`s, 9`s, and 10`s.
What red blooded American male (who never managed the feat in High School like most of us) hasn’t dreamt of having sex with a cheerleader?
And of course the crème de la crème experience would be taking it up a notch and making that an NFL cheerleader.
Has a good ring to it doesn’t it?
But just exactly how does one pull off such a feat?
Well, just as with every other aspect of dating and sex you want to master, you have to put your big head in charge. Which means you’ve got to do your homework, and you’ve got to make a game plan – luckily for you, I’ve been hired to give you great advice on just how to go about it.
Be a Fan of Her Football Team – Not of Her
It’s almost too shocking to accept, as true, but sexy NFL cheerleaders are, at heart, regular women who put their panties on one leg at a time. Yep, even amazing “goddesses of hotness” like Pamela Anderson and Rebecca Romjin are, at heart, regular women.
Regular women (albeit totally sexy hot ones) like to be admired, they like men to be attracted to them, but they do not date fans. And here’s why not – they want to be shown a good time, they want to be interacted with, they want to be listened to – they don’t want to hang out with a guy who’s so in awe of them he can’t string two words together.
That’s why so many actresses date actors, they want to date someone who understands their world, and they don’t want to be treated like a prize to be kept up on a shelf (unless they’re simply gold diggers and you want to avoid those anyway).
What might be cute from a teenage boy with a crush isn’t cute from a grown man. Once you tell a woman you’ve got her picture on your wall, her photo on your computer, or know the name of her dog (or worse, all three) you’re sliding into fandome. Even if you do have her picture on your computer don’t let her know.
But these are NFL cheerleaders we’re talking about, so you’d better be a fan of their team. After all it’s their job to be super fans of the NFL team they cheer for. So if you live in Boston now but your team is still the Miami Dolphins, better think twice about sharing that info.
Be Smart About Meeting NFL Cheerleaders
Your chances of actually having any sort of meaningful conversation with an NFL cheerleader at a game (and by meaningful, I mean getting her phone number), is slim to none. Here are better ways to go about it:
Check their appearance schedule on the official team cheerleader’s page. Each cheerleading squad I checked had busy appearance schedules where the cheerleaders appear at everything from Wal-Mart openings to school openings to charity events. Show up at something that you actually have a reason to be there (i.e. your nephew is going to attend the school).
Get involved in a charity the squad supports. Again, this can be found out by checking out their official page on the team website. If you’re already involved in a local charity you can request that some of the cheerleaders attend your regular events, or help with a fundraiser. For some of the squads this runs around $35.00 per cheerleader per hour, and for others this is free. Again, their official website has the details.
Hire the cheerleaders to attend a corporate event or trade show you’re involved with. This will cost you quite a bit more than a charity or fundraising event, but how cool will you be if you’re the guy with this great idea, and then you’re the one put in charge of coordinating everything and keeping the ladies happy?
Frequent the local hot spots the ladies are known to frequent. This will take some research, but it’s totally doable if you’re dedicated. On most of the official NFL cheerleading squad pages there are profiles of each lady on the squad, and these profiles often tell where the ladies like to hang out. If it’s the velvet rope kind of place and you don’t feel like trying to impress the doorman, book a table for dinner with your buddies and you’ll be escorted right in. After all, if you spy one of your favorite cheerleaders at the bar and send her a drink with your compliments, it looks much better if you’re with a group of your guy friends enjoying dinner on the town than if you’re standing lonely at the bar.
Also, to date hot, fashionable women in general, it’s good to keep up on the best new restaurants and bars in your city. Take advantage of your local lifestyle magazine (usually named after your city) to keep up on things. Both cooking and men’s magazines are also great on tips about the hottest and most exclusive locations. Remember, once you meet your cheerleader you’re going to need to impress her by showing her a great time.
Don’t use alcohol to overcome inhibitions. A drink to loosen up is fine, but the more you drink the messier you get. When you meet your cheerleader you want to be together and charming. You want to get to know her a little, ask for her number, maybe hint a little at the fun you can have together, and then go on with your life so you’ve got some mystery left. Yep, once you’ve got her number you need to cordially walk away with a wink and a smile.
If travel is a part of your regular work life obviously you check out the games of your favorite team if the two of you are in the same city and the same time – but don’t leave it at that. Do your homework and find out where the team stays and book the same hotel, or one close by. You’ll have a very good chance of running into one of the ladies at the hotel bar, or hot local clubs and hooking up for a date right there, or later back in your hometown.
Be Active Socially and Physically
Most NFL Cheerleaders are quite ambitious. They try out for the NFL cheering squads not because the pay is good (it’s not), but because of the terrific opportunities to travel and meet influential people. Take a look through their profiles on the official websites and you’ll read about degrees in Communications, Marketing and Health.
These ladies want to go places and make the most of their lives, so you’d better be a guy with ambitious plans as well.
But if you haven’t set the world on fire yet, don’t despair. After all, most of the NFL cheerleaders are quite young women, still college students trying to find their way in the world. You don’t have to be a millionaire; you’ve just got to be a guy putting things in action.
Another thing to remember is that cheerleaders for the NFL are dancers, and dancers are incredibly active women. In doing research for this article I read through numerous “official” NFL cheerleading sites, and actual cheerleader profiles (tough job, but someone had to do it) and what I read over and over again is that these women like to move.
Of course they like to dance (and you should to), but they also like to hike, and bike, and roller blade, and ski, and the list goes on. These are incredibly fit women, lazy couch potatoes who just like to sit around and flip channels aren’t going to interest them.
For a first date, rather than trying to dazzle these ladies with a night on the town (which will cost bank and you can save for date #2) why not take her out for a local day hike in a beautiful location, complete with a picnic lunch you were smart enough to bring along (if you don’t cook, that’s what high-end gourmet grocery stores are for). Or go biking, or play Frisbee on the beach, anything that will get the two of you out in the sunshine together working up a sweat.
Afterwards you can take her for a long lazy late-lunch-happy-hour at your favorite cantina.
Or if she’s more culturally minded (which you should know, because you found out a bit about her likes and dislikes when you asked for her number, you weren’t just talking and using up the air) take her to see a new art exhibition that just opened, or to a local theater production (remember, many cheerleaders want to be actresses). Always have a plan and a back up plan. The Power Dater, the Master Date, isn’t a man who takes pretty women out so he can brag about himself, instead he knows that “showing” is more powerful than “telling.” If you’re a great at something take her out and show her, don’t talk about it – that way instead of boring her, you’ll give her something to cheer about.
How to Bang an NFL Cheerleader
So you`re not interested in dating an NFL Cheerleader and having a wholesome relationship, you just want to have wild sex, with one or more of these girls.
You can`t approach these girls like any average guy off the street. You need to have style, killer confidence, and a serious edge... She is not the catch. You are the catch.
You have to think this way. You don`t want to make love to her. You want to bang her. That`s how guy`s with an edge think, and that`s what attracts her (or them, think menage a trois aka Carolina Panthers).
Without going into full detail, we suggest you take a lesson from Bad Boy School.
