Excerpted with permission from:
"The Science of Picking Up Women"
Copyright © 2005, The Science of Picking Up Women, www.datinginsiderbook.com. All Rights Reserved.
How does a guy get a woman
to `shower` him with attention to the point of obsession?
By baiting a woman along with the psychological element of seduction known as DETACHMENT. Why does it work? Because it`s the last thing that she expects...
HERE`S HOW DETACHMENT WORKS:
Once you`ve made a good impression on a woman -- for example
you`ve said `hi` to her, she`s said `hi` back, and you`ve
had a chance to flirt and establish a slight level of
attraction over a brief period of time (hours, days) -- you can increase the heat by suddenly backing off.
As explained in our book in more detail with specific examples, your goal is to leave her
`wanting more`.
Women do this all the time to men. This is almost
a tradition, and so it can really infect a woman
with attraction when a guy does it. Because it`s the
last thing that she expects.
FACT: With beautiful women, men are generally the aggressors. Beautiful women grow up in a world where they are pursued hungrily by men.
FACT: Most often beautiful women desire a man that they themselves pursue.
CONCLUSION: Do not persue or `chase` after beautiful women. You want women to chase you. And you do
this by combining flirtatious behavior with `detachment`.
USING THIS SEDUCTION STRATEGY IN REAL LIFE...
To `detach` from a woman, you first need to ignite a spark of
attraction with flirtatious behavior ... Smiles, seductive language, exciting
movements (* also explained in great detail in our book).
After you`ve set the stage with flirtatious behavior, it`s time to
`detach` and back off... Suddenly, the woman is left
wondering why you backed off. She is left thinking about you.
Your goal is to leave her to think about you for a few days... the
next time you see her, once again be warm and flirtatious.
Then start the cycle of detachment all over again.
WARNING: There is a danger of being labeled an `office tease`
if you don`t step up the heat in future encounters that you use
flirtatious behavior.
So step up the heat, use detachment to leave
her thinking about you more and more, and when the time is right,
when you feel that she is literally hoping more than anything
to be with you...
ASK YOURSELF: Do you want this woman to become `obsessed` with
you? You have set the stage for serious `obsession`, and as you are about
to find out with this woman, sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven
wonders of the world.
Read that again. Sex with an obsessed woman is one of the seven
wonders of the world.
Sure, she might think that you`re a jerk... that you`re a `player`... that you`ll
probably `play` her... BUT SHE WILL STILL WANT YOU.
She`ll start showing up
where she knows she`ll find you... at your work, at school, at the nightclub. She`ll start
talking to all of her friends about you. She`ll start calling you day and night.
She might start annoying you. But these are the drawbacks you have to live
with when you have used detachment on a woman so many times that she`s willing
to put out sex where ever and when ever you want it.
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