By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
Pay your membership dues to the gym right now. It is one of the best investments you can ever make into your backside and your penis. No joke!
The gyms and fitness clubs are second only to coffee shops in "sober pick-up joints". Not even the grocery store has this much pick-up action.
More importantly, "you" will be making yourself a better physical commodity to the singles that see you getting ship shape. Remember, there is someone for everyone out there and sometimes more.
Going to the gym is a benefit to the heart, mind and body. This is not the Oprah show, but if you are oblivious to the benefits of good health, then wake up and smell the fat burning. What you eat and drink directly affects your mood and appearance.
Eat and drink healthy for a few days and you will start to feel a lot more confident as a consequence of being in a better mood.
MYTH: FAT GUYS GET LAID. When men at bars get drunk they will go home with a fat girl, no problem. When a woman is drunk and she wants to get laid, the fat guy is not even on the list. Start buying into the stereotypes; guys that go to the gym have a higher closing ratio.
Scouting The Mirrors
The gym is the proverbial mirrored fishbowl with little or no privacy from ALL eyes. You are on display to everyone just as everyone is on display to you. When you are checking someone out in the mirror, you are thinking, "she can not see me looking", but someone is doing it to you at the same time and you don`t know.
"Play the mirrors". Playing the mirrors means try never to look in the mirror at anyone else, look right at them. I have belonged to Bally`s, 24 Hour Fitness, Gold`s, Gorilla Sports, and even L.A. Fitness - they are all the same, everyone checks everyone else out.
Trust your instincts - when you walk in the place and when you walk from equipment to equipment or to the restroom are when you do your scouting.
This is important because you don`t want to look like the gawking prowler stalker creep that we know you are down deep. You do your scouting by being discreet and trusting your instincts with "her behavior", all the while you NEVER stop working out.
Women are going to pay attention to the guy that is not sending out "screw me" messages to all the girls and is actually working out. Part of scouting is seeing and part of scouting is being seen. The first lesson of being trim at the gym is: Working out is fundamental to all aspects of getting laid.
Check The Label
Gentlemen the big bonus here is that you get to read the label on the package and see what you`re "working with" just like they do. Going to the gym puts all of us on the same level. Every one of all status and background get together and strip down to barely anything and get sweaty as hell before they shower together - that sounds like a swinger party!
When all are in work out apparel you get to see their fat gut or their fat ass or cellulite or their fat ankles. The upside is a woman can not hide a set of big boobs at the gym. She can not hide her pear shaped ass with that sweet gap between her upper thighs or her yummy camel toe when she is on the thigh busting machine.
This one gal at my gym is smoking hot but when she works out her crotch is the sweatiest part of her body - yuck!
How a woman dresses influences how she carries herself, when a gal arrives at the gym you get to see how she dresses and walks in work or casual attire. When she changes clothes and shoes, she is shorter and more exposed (two things a girl hates), if she exhibits confidence in her workout clothes she is probably a firecracker.
If she wears her sweatshirt wrapped around her waist, she is covering her ass. Women always "cover" the part of the body they like the least about themselves. Some women with large boobs cross their arms and slouch to hide them.
Self conscience girls at the gym will be more self conscience when you approach them, so do so outside of the gym, when she`s least self-conscious.
Multiple Reps
Recap - you are focused working out, you are not "farming" from the mirrors, and you are studying the members for a shapely confident girl (or three). You are looking for good candidates, these are the girls that smile each time they see you (big hint) and the ones who make that extra effort to say "good-bye" when they leave (bigger hint).
These girls are not your only targets but they are the strongest candidates to receive you. To ensure multiple reps in the future don`t "play your action" at the gym unless you`re SURE. If you are not sure then you might be burning more than one bridge at once. If she was just being nice, then she will be flattered and nothing more and you will have had an audience.
Know this: People can not always tell when you are hitting on a girl, but everyone can always tell when you have just "struck out". Wait until she leaves.
Remember most of the people like yourself can only go to the gym at certain times of the day, so you can literally time what and how to say what you want.
Here is how: Write down your phone number or have a business card ready - either leave moments before her or right as she is leaving - approach her with a smile and make small talk - just before you go your separate ways say, "I wrote down my number (or card), I did not want to approach you at the gym but I would love to take you out for dinner or a drink, let me know, it was nice to see you".
You showed her respect, you did not pressure her for an answer and complimented her all at once - and no one saw you! All this and you get in shape too, pay your membership dues right now.
HOT TIP: No bicycle shorts, no black socks with tennis shoes, no shorts that show your package, no tight t-shirt to show your man-boobs, no head bands or wrist bands.
