By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
The biggest misconception about pick up lines is that one phrase or line will actually work at getting a girl. In most cases if a girl says yes to a corny pick up line then she probably thought you were cute or funny and not "clever". Romantic pick up lines are more for closing a deal that is "in progress" than starting from scratch with.
You use romantic pick up lines to be different and put yourself in the light of a "great lover" not just a good lay. Romance is about being a giver, being patient, and using seduction.
This should be called "The non-verbal communication of the romantic male". It will be the things you do as much or more than the things you say. You won't rap to her like LL Cool J; you will stare at her like Antonio Banderas. If you have ever seen Latin lovers in movies, they use their eyes, body and facial expressions to exude sex and seduction.
It is only when they are "in her ear" do they whisper the sweet nothings we have come to know as romantic pick up lines. The words become the dessert and the actions are the main meal.
Look the Part
Being romantic has to be something you know how to do before you attempt to show it off. Do you have a blazing stare or wicked smile that suggests mischief? Are you a mysterious guy who does not like to over expose himself or personal life too much? Are you extremely masculine in both looks and voice with a rugged edge?
Guys are always looking for the most romantic pick up line or the cleverest when it is what we project before even speaking that makes all the difference. I write from my laptop in coffee shops every morning in Southern California. Even as I sit in one of the many java junctions tapping away, I am dressed and groomed.
You never know when you will meet Ms Rightnow and odds go up on the talent if you are talent yourself. I show up to a coffee shop with a nice collard shirt and I have shaved and I am not going to an office. I date a lot so I know first hand how females judge your "look" as much as we judge theirs.
So looking the part is about dressing like a guy she would want to go out with and more importantly tapping into your personality and charisma to attract her attention. "SEXY" is not "romantic" but they don't live far from each other on the map.
Being romantic is about being intimate. Being intimate bridges the gap between sexy and romantic. You see, a female won't be intimate with someone they are not attracted to, and if they are attracted to you then that is the opportunity to be romantic. So this is where you begin, learning to establish both your fashion/external look and hone your acting skills to project seduction and sensuality (looks & facial expressions).
Man of A Thousand Faces
The looks and facial expressions that you will project have to be CONSISTANT and most importantly you have to have nerves of steel when other MEN are around. You have to have game on one woman as if there are no men present even if there are 10 men present.
Having "GAME" is really about one thing and one thing only: CONFIDENCE. Women are humbled and turned on by a confident man and furthermore, men are humbled and often silenced by the same. You can kill all the competition in the room not by trying but by just being more confident than everyone else.
Did you read that? Read it again, it is the number one formula that men pay tons of money in books and those books come down to one sentence: Be more confident than everyone else in the room and she will be confident that you are a strong male example of romance, seduction and even love.
Your facial expressions from the word "go" must be HAPPY and welcoming. You must project an approach of positive nature that suggests you are a happy person all the time and could easily tell a joke at a moments notice. A mode that also suggests you are humble - laughing at others jokes and giving everyone equal talk time and attention. Always smile and always make eye contact. Being positive and attentive toward a female is romantic to a woman.
These are all behaviors that lead her to believe you are worthy of picking up on her - sometimes you don't need the 'romantic pick up line' to seducer her.
Target Practice
Now you take everything from above and target one woman at a time. Don't try to seduce all the girls at the coffee shop or the party at once.
Use direct eye contact with all potential partners but really CHANNEL this seductive energy right at one girl and be consistent until she breaks, or breaks you. If you want to have some real fun, practice on girls out of your normal realm. If you are a mature male, try it on some younger girls giving out the vibe. If you are a younger guy, try hitting on the MILFs and the cougars.
Either way when the time comes that she wants more attention from you, you will know. I promise, at that point you don't need a line, you have already picked up on her.
