By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
I stare at women of every age right in the eye and look at them as if to cause them to wonder "what he is thinking". I am so comfortable in my own skin and with my sexuality that I can make men uncomfortable as well. Whether I am in a business setting or a social setting, I become Mr. Eye Contact. It is through the use of your eyes and simple glances that all SEDUCTION blossoms.
Mastering strong eye contact is not just about "staring". When you are staring at a stranger to get there attention then remember this, the difference between a player and a stalker is "SMILING".
Don't over smile like you are on the red carpet with Tom Cruise and his pregnant concubine. You smile with your lips, your eyes, and even your brow muscles and cheek muscles. Try this: Express happiness with every part of your face without opening your mouth into a full smile. It is not hard if you relax and realize that all that real estate above your neck has millions of expressions.
The number one look of seduction is: MISCHIEF. If you convey the look of fun and mischief women will gravitate to you.
Remember, girls just wanna have fun. The look of mischief and seduction is the pinnacle of fun. The real key to learning YOUR strong eye contact is being consistent and EMBRACING ITS POWER. I am so skilled at facial and non verbal communication now that with merely one look I can tell a woman I want to screw her or tell a guy he is screwed. Embrace its power!
Just because a female looks "slightly" uncomfortable by your visual consumption of her presence does not mean she does not welcome it. Many women are not surprised when men attack with their eyes but are flattered when they can do it the right way and make them feel pretty in the process. All women want to be complimented and the best way to do it is without saying a word.
Women have mastered this act of mimes - think about how a woman has smiled at you in the past without saying a word and it practically melted you. Don't think they are any more immune to seduction than you are - remember you are a man and men run the planet!
Eye Contact And Flirting
The cons to being the master gazer start with being eerie or creepy. If you look like a cool dude then you should not have to stare too long or too hard before you get the response you are waiting for.
If you stare too long and the girl starts to clutch her purse a little tighter then you are doing something wrong.
The BIGGEST con to having the kung fu grip with your eyes is that EVERYONE sees you. Yeah, that's right when you become the male medusa and can paralyze females with a glance it does not mean no one is watching. Seduction looks are like energy beams and light sabers cutting through the crowd. You can not expect others not to feel the energy you are putting out to one stranger and ignore it.
The most obvious PRO to using eye contact is the appearance of CONFIDENCE. Confidence is the number one element a woman should get from your delivery. She should think that you smiling at her is the tip of the iceberg when it comes to YOU being in control.
These looks you are dealing out like a Vegas veteran better be able to be backed up. She will assume three things from a simple stare: Your interest level, your confidence level, and your seduction level. Hard to believe that all that information can be in a look, stare or glance but that is where we get the phrase "it was written all over his face".
When you practice your craft, try not to over-think your look or goal. Just try to convey in the safest way possible to your target what you ARE thinking. If you think she is sexy, say it with your eyes. If you think she is adorable, then say it with your whole face. No matter what the case learn how to use looks and silence as your main seduction tool.
The more you say with your look and nonverbal communications the less you have to say out loud.
