69 Sex Position - Why We Like It

She Is Sucking His Pole And He Is Licking The "Pearl Zone"

My editor asked me, "Why do we like 69 with girls"? I knew the answer was much bigger than an orgasm.

Personally I have never experienced climaxed from 69 but would not trade the 69 experiences for all the 70's in the world. There are many 69 positions as well that are exciting and anyone with an oral fetish knows it is insatiable - the giving and receiving a 69 offers.

If you don't really know what a sixty-nine (69) is then I will explain that first. A 69 is when two people are servicing each other at the same time. He is performing cunnilingus and she is performing fellatio. She is sucking his pole and he is licking the "pearl zone". Eating at the Y, schlobenzeenobin, muff diving, polish the knob, PERFORMING ORAL!


Do Sex Unto Others, As You Would Have Them Do Sex Unto You

Why we enjoy this double digit sexual position is a combination of an insatiable double threat, giving and receiving. Two things can not occupy the same space at the same time. You can enjoy something and give pleasure but this level is purely recreational. I don't know that many people who have simultaneous orgasms during the 69 position. What we are essentially doing is licking each other.

I say, "Stay focused" because you can have fun just trying to get her off without focusing on your blowjob. While she is sucking the life out of your penis and your ass cheeks are starting to deflate, just stay focused on licking and munching that little slit with all your slobbery might.

Focus on the clitoris and massaging the lips, become the constant gardener. Don't focus on what she is doing right or wrong, just do your job because what could she possibly be doing wrong if you are having a 69 with her so pay her back with a good clit sucking! Besides if you take care of mama she will take care of you big daddy.


68, 69, 70

Some good 69 positions will start with my absolute favorite position, her on top with her legs spread over my face and her ass up in the air while she polishes my knob. This position offers so much in the way of good breathing techniques as well as offering complete unhindered access to the ass.

If your hands wander like mine do then you know you need that ass spread like the Red Sea to get your proper comeuppance. You gotta work fella and that mean lips, tongue, fingers or whatever it takes. This position is good because you get to lie on your lazy ass while she pumps for oil.

This is also a good position "inverted" with her on her back because you just get to bury your face in it while she gets a neck ache bobbing for apples. Many girls want to do it on their side because the can suck with greater ease, but this is the worst position for getting her legs spread properly for a good licking.

If you are the 69 instigator then make sure you are comfortable because we all know that it takes longer to make her cum than you so put in the work in a comfortable spot. If you are really kinky then there is the vertical 69 where you are standing up and holding her up by her thighs and suspending her in mid air while you munch her kitty cat. She will ultimately get a head rush and there is the remote possibility that you could drop her on her head.


Sigmund Freud

Psychologically this is a purely decedent act. It is completely "insatiable" meaning it is rarely the act that will provide "satisfaction" during the act as intercourse might. It is the combination of all the senses during intercourse that provide climax, and even when you don't use all the senses the one common denominator to reaching climax is concentration.

When performing oral while receiving oral it is difficult to manage both sides of the brain equally from receiving sensation to concentrating on forfeiting "technique". If you can successfully give her an orgasm while she gives you one at the same time then the two of you probably come when the wind blows.

The insatiable is obvious; eating something that you can't really eat. Licking it over and over again waiting to hear the moans and groans of positive feedback to let you know you are on the right track. The act of performing oral on a woman involves all the senses.

You taste her, smell her, touch her, look at her and wait until you hear her cum. A woman knows when I am going to blow because I yell the same thing every time as I climax, "Release the hounds bitch"!

I like to do a 69 when I know there is an element of getting caught! If I am sharing a ski lodge or camping with friends or out at the river and I score I like to pick locations that have that danger element. So when someone asks me what my favorite 69 position is I will tell them, "outside".

I wish I could have told my readers something more Freudian about "why" we like to 69. But it really comes down to two things: girls like to suck penis and have their coochie licked… God love them! The 69 was developed when people realized they had "all night long" to have sex and wanted more than just conventional sex.

Back in the stone age some guy said, "Hey Betty, put that in my mouth while this is in your mouth, I want to try something". The rest is history.