By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
Let me first confess that having knowledge of a certain skill does not always mean you posses the skill itself. What I have learned about picking up on you ladies is two-fold.
First: I know what I have learned first hand from your mouths and actions as well as my failures.
Second: I have learned most from being the voyeur and watching others PICK UP GIRLS using the same techniques only proving that it is a numbers game.
Are you one of the numbers? Are you constantly meeting very cool guys who seem sincere but never really cross the finish line? These guys are PICK UP ARTISTS and they have watched your behavior as well - knowing just when to talk to you and what to say to you - never making you feel as if they are players but simply the antithesis of all the guys you dumped before him.
Call Him Out
The first part of this tome is teaching you first and foremost what not to feed to the PUA when you're out and about and how making him "hit on you" will make him work for your action. The typical PUA has a plan and certain techniques that he's looking to use on you if you give off certain signals. You may actually want a guy to hit on you that you find attractive but remember that any guy that is worth it will put in the work to find out.
If you are out in a club or a grocery store then make sure you don't give him the wrong signals. When any guy stares at a woman in public - make no mistake that man is thinking about approaching her, asking her out, sleeping with her, the works! That is not an exaggeration; men are visual creatures that can "one track mind" you right to the bedroom before you even speak.
Women who get hit on a lot don't even realize that beneath that charming smile and witty personality is a guy with only one thing on his mind and that is "seeing you naked". It is virtually everything he works for right up until he dumps you or doesn't call you back.
So if all guys are like this then how is it possible to sift out the Good Bad Boys from the Bad Bad Boys? Simply put… make them work there ass off. PUAs will not work their ass off for just one girl because they invest all their time in multiple females for transient sexual relationships. PUAs and regular guys can look similar in their approach because PUAs have mastered being SOA - Sincere On Arrival.
The Pick Up Artist Unmasked
So with all these men out there how can you tell the sincere guy from the regular guy? I will tell you right now what to look for in unmasking this cad - HUMBLENESS. Being humble can not be faked and no man of great confidence will show his humble side - this might suggest a guy hiding something, something you don't need in your life - Selfishness.
When a guy asks you out for the first time and he is REALLY good at it or "smooth" then rest assured he has done that same thing many times. If your suitor is clumsy in your presence, kinda fumbles what he wanted to say and maybe even seemed "goofy" - THAT IS A COMPLIMENT!
Any guy who gets flustered (a little) and sounds "unrehearsed" is probably a good candidate for a date.
PUAs are seeking ALL the action not just yours and it will come out in the first few dates. He is always complimenting you, and if he is always trying to touch you he will have an "edge" that he uses to constantly suggest sex or make flirty innuendoes. He will try to bag you "that night" and will even ditch his friends in an instant if you throw flirtations back at him. The regular guy will ask you politely and be patient with the process.
In either case it is what you give back to these guys that will show their colors. Guys who respect "your space" will not try to "touch" you within first meeting you. That is a trick the PUAs use because if they can get close enough to touch you it is there confirmation that you're "into them".
The only time a man should touch you upon meeting you is either in the greeting or in the departure. I suggest ONLY the latter of the two. The PUA will "bum rush" you, over compliment you and try to touch your hands, arms or other body parts within minutes - sounds like a prison cellmate.
Ladies, I have to slap you with a fresh one because so many of you want to have your cake and eat it too. When a guy is too sincere you call him boring or "square", but when a guy is naughty you seem surprised when he leaves you for two more chicks just like you.
Face facts, you can not have it both ways. If you want to get laid constantly then pick the guy who fits the description in the above paragraph. If you want to have a decent love life then avoid the guy in the last paragraph and just look your best everyday and when a guy gives you some "rhythm" then give him just enough "rhythm" back to make him work for YOU.
You are the fruit ladies and we should have to go out on a limb to get you.
