A Girl's Guide to One-Night Stands

Have you ever felt like the only thing you needed was a really good fuck? For women, these are the nights you make the conscious decision that the only thing you want from a man is his penis.

These are the nights that you let your girlfriends know not to stop you after your fifth shot of tequila when you start making out with a hot guy at the bar. The nights it's made clear from first eye contact that your intention is to take him back to your place and have your way with him. The nights that you actually go out looking for a one night stand.

When you decide this is all you want, you have to prep yourself from the very beginning. It's a fact that women in general have a hard time dealing with the idea that it is OK for a successful, intelligent woman to only want sex from a man. In reality, this should have made its way into the minds of women a very long time ago.

The difficulty behind this situation is that some men will make women feel as if they're promiscuous when they intentionally go out looking to get laid. However, let's just face it guys, this has been the intention of young men around the world since the turn of the century. All women have done to this concept is perfect it!

Women need to get over the guilt that comes with the idea of contemplating whether or not it is OK to fuck on the first date. As women of the 21st century, we need to allow ourselves the experiences that many different men have to offer. I'm not suggesting that you sleep with every random guy that comes your way. All I am saying is that as women, we deserve the right to make the decision of whether or not we want to take a man home with us. Why shouldn't we be allowed this luxury? Men make this same decision regarding us every day.

The most difficult aspect to this process is the preparation for a one-night stand can be just as intimidating as actually going through with it. When you go into the situation with the intention of taking a man home, you have to either mentally prepare yourself – or get really wasted!

There are a few things to keep in mind when deciding that a one-night stand is what you want:

By this I mean, a night where everything goes right. Your hair, makeup, choice of outfit, etc. This will not only give you the confidence you need to nail the guy of your choice, but it will also intimidate the "chumps" that would even think they had a shot with woman of your beauty!

The worst thing that could foul up an intentional one-night stand is having one of your girlfriends "cock block" you!

This is the hardest rule of them all. Take it as an experience that you either want to repeat, or forget about, but either way, you should never place guilt upon yourself for a decision that you made. Just take it as it is – and if all else fails, blame it on the alcohol!

If you are one of those woman who still have trouble coming to terms with the idea that a good no-strings-attached fuck is perfectly acceptable once in awhile, you may want to try a different approach. Let me play out a little scenario for you:

You're in Vegas with your best friend. You just had the night of your life sitting in the front row at the Chippendale's show, and you're feeling good about yourself and the way the night is playing out. You decide that the two of you should finish up the night at one of the hottest nightclubs on the strip.

You start dancing with your girlfriend and you spot a hot guy near the bar. You give him your famous come-fuck-me-eyes while you continue dancing. You make it a point to glance over at him at least three more times, just so he knows you're looking his way. Just as you see him walk towards the dance floor, you grab him by his shirt and wordlessly drag him out on the floor.

Don't ask too many questions, and you don't think too deeply in to the situation. When the right moment comes, you simply throw out, "my room, or yours?"

This is the easiest of all situations to get out of in the morning. You're not at home and you'll likely never see this man again, and lastly, you are in Vegas… enough said!

If you're still uncertain about having a one-night stand, consider this. What happens if you get married, go out with your girlfriends one night and meet a man that stops you dead in your tracks and makes you wish that for one night you had not made those vows? If you'd allowed yourself the experience of a one-night stand, those feelings may not be so strong. You may even be able to shrug him off, like, "nah, been there, done that!"

If you're still not sure, maybe a one-night stand just isn't in the cards for you. But I will tell you one thing: it should be on everyone's list of things to do before you die. It's on mine! Just remember, be safe and have fun with it. You only live once, you may as well make it worth it!