Give the Perfect Hand job

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Starting the perfect hand job is all about preparation and setup. Most of the women that have given me one have set the mood and let me know that I'm in for a treat. This includes things like setting out lotions or lubricants, as well as dimming the lights and setting a sultry mood for the evening like talking about sex, or playing sensual music.

Most guys are like myself-ready to go at a moments notice with just the inkling that our pleasure is on your mind. A simple invitation from the bedroom can be enough to let us know something is going on; if you're looking like a sex-starved vixen, all the better.

The key to using your hands to arouse your lover is to apply pressure to the base of the cock and tease the tip of it. By squeezing the base lightly you allow pressure to build within the shaft, and the tip of the penis is where the pleasure centers are located, so obviously you'll want to give a lot of attention there as well. Once you've gotten your man's attention and aroused his interest, you will have complete control in keeping him in that state, and pushing him to a powerful orgasm.

Helping you man reach climax requires the right amount of pressure and friction, in addition to visual and audible teasing as possible. Encourage him to get as comfortable as possible, and enjoy the pleasure you're providing him. Whispering as many explicit things in to his ear as possible will also likely keep him hard as a diamond in an ice storm, and yearning to release! Continue to apply pressure towards the base of his cock, and use a rotating up and down action around the tip of his penis. You don't need to expend a lot of energy on a great hand job; there's really no sensitivity in the length of the shaft, so why waste your time with a full workout when you only need to tease a portion of his member?

Besides working your hands against the tip, you can also tease other sensitive areas of his body. Cup his balls and shuffle them in your fingers (gingerly - don't want to accidentally squeeze one too hard!). Your fingers can also tease the skin along his inner thighs and along the lower abdomen below his belly button. Both of these areas are highly sensitive, and will keep his body tense and in pleasure. Another area of your man that you might want to explore is the area below his balls and above his asshole, called the taint. If you apply just a small amount of pressure there with your finger, you can actually stimulate him even further. It's like applying a small amount of pressure on the prostate, and can cause a great deal of pleasure to most men (well, assuming he doesn't have any prostate problems!).

Using lubricant to give a great hand job is almost a prerequisite. Since you're not bringing any personal moisture to the event, you'll want to find a lotion or lube that you enjoy, such as a scented or heat-activated lube. KY has a great new heat-generating lube that provides a lot of motion but also warms to the touch, which adds to the overall stimulation. Another trick you can use is to warm one hand on him, and put another hand on a glass of icewater or on an ice cube, and then rubbing your cooled hand against him. This variation of temperatures can keep him guessing as to what's coming next (don't worry, once he's hard, a little cold won't put him down). Regardless of whatever lube you decide to use, be sure not to use too much. Too much lubricant means that you can't get enough friction, which in turn means you're doing twice the work for half the result.

There are lots of extras that you can do to increase his delight at your perfect hand job. Depending on your cup size, you may or may not be comfortable adding a little lubricant between your breasts and giving him a great show by letting him tit-fuck you. The best way to pull this off is to position yourself over him with your breasts wrapped around him, and push your breasts together, wrapping it inside and then sliding your body up and down. Mind you, this requires both that he's got a good enough sized unit to do that with, and also that you're able to position yourself above him in a comfortable way. Visually, it's hot as hell, although unless you've really got you and him positioned right, it's not an easy way to get him to climax.

With your hands wrapped around his penis, you should have a good sense of when he's about to cum. When I'm about to cum, I usually end up taking shorter breaths, as well as tensing my pelvic muscles. You should probably have a good idea of what you want to do before you get to this state, otherwise it'll just be a sticky mess all over your perfectly good sheets. If you really want to excite your man, encourage him to cum on your face or breasts; there's nothing like a porn cliche to make a guy feel like he's on top of the world! Other options include tissues or towels - and you'll probably want those around anyway. Keep pressure applied to the base or the shaft, and tug at the head of the penis as furiously as possible. Once he's started to cum, slowly pull from the base to the tip, but don't put too much pressure on the tip - it's very sensitive then!

Like most things sexual, the most enjoyable part is learning what's right between two people. Hand jobs can be great ways to start a night, or even fun to do when you're in a little more public setting and can't exactly mount your man. Open a sex dialogue your partner and discuss what feels good or what you want to try out. And remember, it's never a bad idea to give your guy a helping hand!