By Jackson Morris
Copyright © 2006, Seduction Insider, www.seductioninsider.com.
LADIES! Listen up because I am going to tell you what Grant Day, Melissa Balmer and other writers (players) here at SeductionInsider.com won't tell you about catching a player. The publisher and editors of this online magazine get more action than you can shake a stick at but even they get "CAUGHT" by savvy females who know how to lasso a roadhouse warrior.
First of all, you are probably saying why would I want a player? Because WE ARE FUN and great in bed that is why. That is how we got your number to begin with, remember? You girls seemed floored when you meet a hot guy with slick moves but quickly you forget he has used those moves so many times that it is second nature to him. You all have fallen for it and you know it: A hot guy pours it on thick to compliment you and make you feel like a Princess, then a few dates later he evaporates into thin air proving that he actually "can live without you".
Hello? Does that sound familiar? It is not you honey, he is just bored with either your performance or even worse: you gave in too quick. Giving the player everything he wants is the last thing he wants. Even player guys like my editor or Grant Day pray every day they will be caught by the Princess Grace of all dates. Are you her? Not if you give me everything I want, you are not!
Catch Me If You Can
The reason you have initial attraction to the champion players out there is because the seasoned player seeks the ones who seek attention. Players can sense when a female is craving attention and they will fill her up with compliments and laughter to make her feel special. Next, players will make you feel like you are the ONLY girl they want to be with - this usually pushes most females' right into the sack at this point where the player (me) gives them an overwhelming orgasm. Attention, affection and a big orgasm are the PRINCESS SYNDROME. The player puts the girl in the PS and then usually does not call back or gently fades to black as they say.
Where does he go? On to the next one where do you think? This is who he is and this is his pattern. The only way you will ever stand a chance of catching the player is CHANGING HIS PATTERN. If a player puts on the Princess Syndrome after knowing you less than a week then he is on his game. Don't worry ladies you don't have to turn down any of his generosity or attention - however, never "go the distance" in the first week or two no matter how hard you fall for his lover boy routine. He will be good at it, trust me I know.
Change the pattern? Yes, change the pattern. If you see all of those signs and you think he thinks you are falling into his hands but you really want to get to know what he is made of and if he is sincere - throw him a curveball. CANCEL A DATE.
Don't just cancel the date, do it like a PLAYER. Call him up an hour or three before the date and if he does not answer then leave the message on his machine. Tell him, "I have good news and bad news, the bad news is I have to cancel for tonight but the good news is I will make it up to you." If you have to answer the question, "Why are you cancelling?" Then simply say, "Personal reasons".
Yes, that is the way of the player, promises promises. Next, you will let him get "hot & heavy" with you but not go all the way. In other words make every date with this guy enough to keep him coming back for more. If he does not do that he is not worth keeping and he is lazy. If you went out on three dates with the guy and all of them were good dates but he does not call you for a fourth then just chalk it up to him being a player who got either bored or has too many chicks on the fly at once. Either way you are not missing out on anything because 3 dates means he likes you but not enough to change his pattern - who wants that?
Catching a player is more about "taming" a player than catching him. Players are guys who really enjoy three things; variety, freedom and sex. It is that simple - if you can be the one girl who gives him monstrously good sex and allow him his freedom then more than likely the variety aspect will go by the wayside. Men want a woman who impresses them. Nothing impresses a player more than a woman who can resist him…sometimes.
Ladies, never forget YOU are the prize not us boys. That is why us boys spend so much money on sex, dinners, jewelry and vacations. We buy boats and fast cars so you will get in and hold our hands. When you meet a player that you want to keep always remember that you are the prize and he is playing to win it.
